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Are you being served?…




We all have problems, issues call them what you will. But what happens when you can’t leave them at home?  “Pack up your troubles in your old kit bag and smile”….goes the song, not that easy is it? 

Intuition and the ‘knack’ to read people, does not come easy to everyone.  You either have it or you don’t, if you don’t it will come with experience, if you do and your anything like me there are days when you will feel blessed about having this gift and there are days where you will feel it’s a curse!

I am a believer that people don’t mean to be rude, aggressive or deliberately difficult.  I have determined during my 5 and a bit years at Aveda, that if you dig deep enough there is a lot more going on than first thought.

The most important thing to remember when dealing with the public your ‘bread and butter’ is never to take anything personally.  If someone has met you for the first time and they have launched a tirade of words like…”You never get it right, why do I always have to explain myself more than once”?  Logic will tell you that it’s not you they are really shouting at but your own insecurities will have you believe otherwise.

Stay cool, calm and collected…explain that you will do what you can to help and that whilst you cannot explain things at that moment you will do your best for them.  Simple if you know how!

I can honestly say that I cannot remember a time where I haven’t been able to turn a negative situation into a positive…I get a buzz out of it to be honest but then that’s what floats my boat!  If you have any questions or queries about how to handle situations effectively in your business or if you have an issue that you are faced with now and need some guidance…’Ask Michelle’
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Driving Miss Michelle…

Finding the right driving instructor is like finding the perfect pair of shoes, they need to fit, be painless and have a good sole!!

 
I had three!  The first shouted at me the whole time….his name escapes me….so shout at me and I’ll forget you quickly.  The second was Nik ‘The Greek’ who’d get me to park up, buy us a coffee and ask my advice, ask michelle’ about his encounters with the ladies!  I got a complete run down of what he’d been up to the night before.  I soon worked out that I should have been charging him for my counselling service instead of me paying him in full for half a driving lesson…bye, bye Nik!

And then there was the third, and it was third time lucky.  I passed first time and as everyone knows it is one of the best feelings of achievement you will ever have…why?  Because you did it yourself and if you persevere you’ll get what you deserve.
 
In my case it was a Skoda for 300 quid! 
 
 

© Michelle Sotiriou 2011

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‘Think and Drive’… my thought’s from behind the wheel.

There I was jamming to the great ‘Bob Marley’ in the car when I had a random thought….’No woman no cry’ will do that to you.  


 ‘Love’ or ‘Money’ what do you do, which do you choose and how do you decide?
 
 
I personally have never been interested in bagging some rich or ‘comfortable’ man thinking I’ll be secure in fact it’s never crossed my mind.  Some women do and that’s a choice they make for a lot of reasons.
 
Strong independent women we may be but we love to love and love to be loved, anyone who denies it isn’t being honest or just can’t see it…yet. So after my jamming session it  occured to me that there is just one question you need to ask yourself. If the answer to this question is yes no matter the status of the person you have finally found ‘the one’. If the answer is no you’ll probably get an uneasy feeling in the pit of your stomach, sorry but you’ve been pre-warned!  


The question??
 
 

If this person asked to you to spend the rest of your life with them anywhere in the world leaving everything you know behind…. would you go?

© Michelle Sotiriou 2011

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The Art of Conversation…

The first known conversationalist was Socrates, who replaced the war of words by dialogue.  Perhaps he may not have invented dialogue, which was originally from Sicily, but he introduced the idea that individuals could not be intelligent on their own.

Socrates had studied science and was left with the feeling that he would never know what to believe.  His brilliant idea was that if two unsure individuals were put together, they could achieve what they could not do separately:  By questioning each other and examining their prejudices, dividing each one of these into many parts, finding the flaws, never attacking or insulting, but always seeking what they could agree between them, moving in small steps from one agreement to the other, the would gradually learn what the purpose of life was.

Socrates was exceptionally ugly, but he showed how two individuals could become beautiful to each other by the way they talked.

© Michelle Sotiriou 2011